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Genius is immediate. True Talent takes time.
We all know someone who we think is a genius. They always seem to have a brilliant idea, an incredible thought or a unique way of looking at things. These people are an amazement to most of us who can count our truly brilliant ideas on one hand. The most interesting thing about genius is that it is totally natural, it is easy and it is inborn. In fact, to watch a true genius in action is practically a spiritual experience.
Genius... these ideas, these thoughts that just pop into our heads – they are truly a gift. They are given to us. There is no reason, no logic, no way to explain them. They are just there, and they pop in at just the right time. They are completely original thoughts. Many people believe that there is genius in each of us, and all we have to do is find a way to tap into it. I’m one of these people.
After years of studying many different mentors, it appears that there are a few ways for us to tap into our genius. First, we must recognize, acknowledge and accept the genius within. We must believe that we possess it and that it is available to us. Next, we can stimulate the genius in two very easy ways: Exercise and Meditation.
It is commonly known that moving our bodies rhythmically and breathing deeply stimulates certain areas of our brains. These activities allow all parts of the brain to communicate freely and perhaps trigger activity that is otherwise dormant. When you need a fresh idea, try taking a brisk walk, swinging your arms and concentrating on the air you are breathing. Often, you will find that an idea, answer or course of action that has eluded you will suddenly be at your disposal. Often, when it comes to you, you will think, “Of course that’s it, I knew it all along”.
Meditation is another way to get connected with your inner genius. Meditation that is practiced on a regular basis can provide a direct link to your inner self, your higher self and God. Great thoughts and divine ideas will come instinctively at the exact moment they are needed when you are truly connected. Many people believe this is because meditation relieves stress and tension, and therefore allows for free-flowing thoughts. Others believe it is the deep breathing and relaxation that is promoted by meditating that “unclogs” ideas. Either way, it is a good way to open yourself up and tap in to your very own genius.
Talent, on the other hand, is cultivated. It starts with a vision, a desire, a dream. It lies in believing in self and team and vision. It lies in a willingness to take risks and a willingness to fail, often to fail many times before reaching the goal. Mostly though, talent lies in perseverance. It lies in hard work, long hours, blood, sweat and tears. It lies in the ability to make connections with others and garnering support to further a cause, a dream or a mission. Talent lies in the desire to produce, to lead, to be your personal best. Talent lies in recognizing your God-given abilities and molding them into something that is special and beautiful and rare.
There are many people who have developed their true talents: Celine Dion has the voice of an angel; Derek Jeter of baseball and the Williams sisters of tennis dominate their respective sports with ease, grace and poise; Bill Gates and Oprah Winfrey have built empires that have changed the way people communicate, learn and reach one another.
These people are not geniuses – or perhaps they are. Perhaps they have tapped their inner genius and have taken it to the next level. They have proven in their own right that talent takes time and devotion and drive, it takes belief and perseverance - and it even takes love!
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Psychology Used in Marketing
By Jane P Selwyn-James
Psychology Used In Marketing Now that's a phrase to conjure with!! What exactly is meant by the term Psychological Marketing? It's all about the mindset of the searcher! Let's cover the various aspects of it:
Psychological Marketing - Reverse Psychology Reverse psychology is a technique involving the advocacy of a belief or behavior that is opposite to the one desired, with the expectation that this approach will encourage the subject of the persuasion to do what actually is desired: the opposite of what is suggested. This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of reactance, in which a person has a negative emotional response in reaction to being persuaded, and thus chooses the option which is being advocated against. Or simply put - if you tell a child that he absolutely cannot do something - then he absolutely wants to and probably will do it! Perhaps we don't ever really grow up!
How many times do we see advertisements, whether on-line or on television or even in the offline media of magazines and newspapers - that say something like - 'you don't want to read this' - so you do immediately! Or you think of yourself as not being the brightest and you see a headline to the ad that says 'only really intelligent people should read this! and you are in there! No-one but you says whether you are intelligent or not!! Yet again -'This product is only for the favoured few - please don't click here!!' and you do, even if you don't want whatever is offered. Reverse psychology coming into play - what you are told you cannot have - you want! No chance wordings here - the art of psychological marketing!
Psychological Marketing - The Art of Colours It is no accident that major company players have major advertising departments with major budgets! Everyone wants to get through to their consumer in a way that no-one else does. How to achieve that when people don't really like being sold to? This is where the psychological marketing using colour comes in - choosing the colour that rivets your attention, affects your nervous system and sends neurotransmitters to your brain releasing endorphins, serotonin etc - the happiness hormones. Basically the effect is to make you feel good and then they have you! If just looking at the product/service ad makes you feel that good - what will you feel like if you buy it! I must have it!! Artists and interior designers have long understood how colour can dramatically affect moods, feelings and emotions. It is a powerful communication tool and can be used to signal action, influence mood and cause physiological reactions.
Here are a list of colours and what they mean in terms of business - through the eyes of the North American culture:
Consider the meaning of the following colours when used in psychological marketing:
- White: Pure. Clean. Youthful. It's a neutral color that can imply purity in fashion and sterilisation in the medical profession.
- Black: Power. Elegant. Secretive. The colour black can target your high-end market or be used in youth marketing to add mystery to your image.
- Red: Passion. Excitement. Danger. Red is the colour of attention, causing the blood pressure and heart rate to rise. Use red to inject excitement into your brand.
- Orange: Vibrant. Energy. Play. Add some fun to your company if you want to create a playful environment for your customers.
- Yellow: Happy. Warm. Alert. Yellow can be an attractor for your business with a relaxed feeling.
- Green: Natural. Healthy. Plentiful. To create a calming effect or growth image choose green. Go green go.
- Purple: Royalty. Wise. Celebration. Maybe add some purple tones to your look for your premium service business.
- Blue: Loyal. Peaceful. Trustworthy. Blue is the most popular and neutral colour on a global scale. A safe choice for a business building customer loyalty. Also the colour most used for healing the body.
So companies vying for your business or dollar - know this and use these colours accordingly. So powerful when your eyes are the first place that the tissue of the central system is stimulated!
Psychological Marketing - Reciprocity If I give you something, you're likely to give me something - or that is the general rule unless you are a miserly sort of person! If I give you a free trial of a new skin care product, for example, then you're more likely to feel obligated to buy it. Another example is with direct mailing: the organisation Disabled Veterans of America sends out requests for money each year as do so many charities - World Wildlife Fund etc. The basic mailing generates only an 18 percent response, but when it adds free personalised address labels or christmas cards if it is that time of year, it improves to 35 percent. In negotiations this principle is very much at play. If I concede something to you by retreating to a smaller request, then you are more likely to concede something to me by giving up something of your own. So by starting with a higher asking price, you can create concessions and engage the psychological desire for exchange. A bit like the traditional bartering if you will. it's all in the marketing psychology whether at the top end company or the Egyptian bazaar!
Psychological Marketing - Scarcity Value Items become more desirable to us as they become less available. For this reason, marketers trumpet the one-of-a-kind nature of their product or service. "Limited time only" offers. Scarcity can be turned to your advantage. Telling customers that "We've been informed that there's going to be a cheese shortage" will increase orders. "Telling customers that "We have an exclusive source who's told us that there's going to be a cheese shortage" will drive up orders even higher. The more the appearance of scarcity, the higher the desire to act quickly before it's too late.
How many of us go berserk at Christmas time - buying in tons of food we don't really need or even want because it is that time of year and we are conditioned to feel that everything is going to run out and the shops are going to be closed for weeks? I am sure if I could view the sea of hands going up or heads nodding it would be amazing! It is the psychological marketing of it all - unfortunately it now starts earlier each year!
Psychological Marketing - Overview I hope the foregoing has given you some idea of what goes on 'behind the scenes' of magazines, newspapers, internet sales, direct sales, flyers through the letterbox etc Dependant on the product and the emotion that they wish to generate will decide on the colour used - the words chosen - the picture or image shown - it is all carefully crafted to feed on your psychology. Food for thought next time you are looking to make a purchase!
Firstly and most importantly, I am passionate about people. I am passionate about their health at all levels - as a Naturopath of 12 years I have understood that what makes us the sickest is our view of the world and ourselves. Today I use methods to teach how to find success in all levels of our lives - physical, mental and financial. If you believe in yourself - you will take care of yourself. If you believe in your power to be successful - you will be successful. If you have the physical energy - you will have the drive. It is all linked and it starts with the most important factor of them all - YOU!
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Seven Ways People Silently Demand You Settle
By Jenny Hamby
People don't like to hear the word 'No.' Most people take 'No' so personally that when you say it, they get defensive. Feeling this resistance, most people back down or apologize for having needs and requesting that those needs be met. Saying 'No' is not a personal attack on the individual you're saying 'No' to. More than that, asking for what you need (especially in situations where you've asked repeatedly and haven't gotten an answer) is a huge part of being a functional, proactive person. It is a sign of low self-esteem to not be able to hear the words 'No' and not take it personally. However, what usually happens (in situations where people say 'No' and the other person gets offended) is this: the person asking to have their needs met feels guilty, retracts the request, and doesn't ask again. Don't do that.
When you are asking to have your needs met, be clear (even before asking) that you deserve to have those needs met. Resist the temptation to spend sleepless nights debating whether you 'should' or 'shouldn't' ask for what you need. Asking is never the issue. A person's ability to receive always is. The key to successfully setting boundaries comes in knowing that you have the right to ask and the other person has the right to say yes or no knowing that blame, shame or guilt does not have to be part of the process.
There are seven ways that people silently demand you settle, especially in situations where people have dropped the ball, let your down, or did not come through as they promised. Here are the seven ways
- People respond to your request late and, in some, way, shape or form, try to blame you for it.
- People attribute their lack of response or inability to say yes to environmental factors 'beyond' their control.
- People get defensive and try to bully you into silence.
- People say 'maybe' and postpone giving you a straight answer, thereby keeping your life in limbo.
- People say 'No' on principle without even giving the request any consideration.
- People lay guilt on you for even asking.
- People don't respond at all and make you chase them down for an answer.
So what do you do when people use one of the seven ways listed above to silently demand that you settle for whatever they're willing to give you?
You do three things:
- Don't take it personally. Take some time to get yourself to the place where you don't take their response personally. At the end of the day, how that person is responding to you has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with them. Once you separate their behavior from your worthiness, you allow that person to be who they are without taking any responsibility for their immaturity.
- Keep your options open. There are at least a thousand ways to get your needs met. Do not be fooled into believing that you require any particular person's support or involvement to live your best life. If one person says 'No', there are 999 other people you can go to, even if you haven't met them yet.
- Hold to your boundaries. Your boundaries are yours and you get to set them with everyone you come in contact with. Just because someone didn't like the fact that you asked to have your needs met doesn't mean you bend or flex the boundary to accommodate their need to be right. The only way you teach people how to treat you is by showing up consistently in the way you expect to be treated. The moment you bend a boundary once, people will assume you will bend it again and again. Don't do that. Hold to your boundaries. If you lose friends over it, guess what? They never were friends to begin with. Trust your ability to create and keep healthy boundaries. Whoever gets offended, upset or disconnects doesn't have your highest good in mind.
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